If you can’t love yourself, then no-one else will be able to love you! I remember hearing how the Dalai Lama was shocked that Western civilization even had this concept. So when you care for yourself, your outer will world will care for you too.
I managed to drag my son around to meetings and shoots, but then employed a nanny when I couldn’t. I work in Advertising and video production and it’s long hours, so it was a big juggle. When I say to other mothers we give birth to guilt, I’m definitely not joking.
My wonderful Feng Shui expert and friend, set my fengshui up perfectly in my new flat to meet ‘my soul mate’. The funny thing is about this time is that I was in love already, I was in love with me.
Imagine yourself in the presence of that person (or in that situation), without believing the thought. How would your life be different if you didn’t have the ability to even think the stressful thought?
What we are saying about ourselves, also communicates what we feel about the person we are with (unconsciously). Ultimately if you said to yourself when you dress, I want to wear something that shows I care about myself – what would you wear?