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Article: How to Start Manifesting Your Dreams

How to Start Manifesting Your Dreams

Manifesting your dreams has become a more popular mentality for achieving ambitious outcomes. But, what does manifesting mean, and how effective is it in realising your goals?

Manifesting begins with the belief that what a person thinks can change their reality. However, changing your reality depends on many other factors, such as personal circumstances and decisions made by others.

In short, manifesting alone will not instantly bring you to a more desirable stage in your life.

Another way of looking at manifesting is having a positive mindset about your goals which is needed to find the drive and encouragement to pursue change. If you are in a bad situation or emotionally strained, and are looking for something to push you forward, here are some practical tips on making manifestation work for you:


1. Clear Blocks That Are Hindering You from Receiving What You Want

Start by visualising your dream. Based on this dream, identify what factors hinder you from reaching that goal in your current life. Then, take the necessary steps to clear away any blocks hindering you from reaching your dreams.

For instance, if you want to move out, are there responsibilities that keep you tied to your current address? Perhaps you need to finalise these duties to transition into a new home.

What if you are having trouble pursuing a new venture? Does your day job take up so much time that you cannot work on your business idea after work or on the weekends? If so, try to establish a more balanced work-life schedule by letting go of lesser tasks or delegating some responsibilities.


2. Shift Your Negative Mindset to a Positive One

As stated earlier, manifesting your dreams starts with a positive mindset. Believe that the goal is possible and that you can achieve it, or else you will not be able to make any progress.

Start saying encouraging words to yourself, like “I can do this” or “I am awesome!” when starting your day. What we say to ourselves very much informs our reality, and giving ourselves encouraging words helps shift our attitude to a more positive one.


3. Understand the Issue or Reason Behind Your Negative Mindset

Are you prone to making negative comments about yourself or your actions? If so, then think about why you tend to do this. Do the negative words sound like things told to you as a child? Does it come from a tendency to be too hard on yourself and others, or people setting impossible expectations of you when you were younger?

Look at these causes and try to understand how they stop you from believing in yourself. Reflecting on these issues lets you figure out ways to address the negative thoughts and attitudes while also allowing you to become more compassionate to yourself.


4. Love What You Have

While it is important to have dreams, do not lose sight of the good things and great people in your life. Reminding yourself of what you have helps you appreciate the present and lead a happy life. This practice can encourage improving and moving toward your ideal future.

Before you wind down for bed, make a list of things, events, and the people to whom you are grateful. The items on your gratitude list do not have to be those special events or expensive items. They can be as simple as the sunset you caught on the way home or kind words from a stranger.


5. Attract Positive Situations

You will attract more positive situations once you start thinking positively about yourself and your life. You will also build the right mindset to deal with any uncertainties that may come up in the future.

If you are still having trouble thinking positively about yourself or your life, try reframing the thoughts you often have in your head. For example, instead of thinking, “I am having a hard time in this situation, ”try rephrasing that mindset by saying: “I know there are challenges, but I can create and act on solutions to these hurdles.”


6. Release Negative Energies

While some may believe it is best to ignore or pretend negative thoughts do not exist, it is still important to acknowledge them whenever they enter your mind. When such thoughts arise, recognise them for what they are. Do not pass judgment on them, and do not judge yourself for having them. Having these thoughts are part of being human.

Once you have learned to accept the negative thoughts for what they are, you can let them go and tell yourself that there is no room for these negative energies.


7. Feel Greater Self-Love

Self-love, defined as appreciating yourself, starts with actions that support your spiritual, physical, and psychological health. It also begins with taking care of your own needs and not compromising your well-being to please others.

The first steps toward practising self-love can be challenging, but you can begin with one or two baby steps a day. Think about small acts that prioritise yourself, like making time for an activity you enjoy, getting seven to eight hours of sleep daily, meeting with friends you enjoy spending time with, and scheduling time for exercise. To ensure you have the time and energy for these things, learn to set boundaries by saying no to people or commitments that will not make you happy.

Manifesting your dreams begins with a positive mindset that establishes better self-confidence. Practise these things regularly, and you will genuinely start believing that you can tackle anything while also accepting the things beyond your control.

Need guidance in manifesting your dreams? Get in touch with Scarlett Vespa today!

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